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 14:37 | 2/Sep/2008
---- Not to scare u ----- Very importan...
There is more in life than just work….. U work to have a better life….  If work can destroy your life… It is better to stay jobless…. act sensibly… It is the friends and the good wishes you earn  which will make you live a complete life…. No matter how you perform … good or bad… you will be forgotten…. So work only until you enjoy it… When it reach... more...
 12:11 | 11/Aug/2008
The Big Breaking News! India's ace shooter Abhinav Bindra created history by winning the first ever individual Olympic Gold Medal for the country. It's Abhinav Bindra, Abhinav Bindra all over the Beijing shooting range. Abhinav won the gold in 10m Air Rifle event. Abhinav Bindra scored 700.5 points in the final. Although India had won 8 gold medals... more...
 15:12 | 31/Jul/2008
How u work matters
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 11:15 | 29/Jul/2008
PEACE
Your future is Ur Destiny Your destiny is Ur Ambition, Your ambition is Ur Aspiration , Your aspiration is Ur Motivation , Your motivation is Ur Belief , Your belief is Ur Peace more...
 16:49 | 24/Jul/2008
A.R.Rahman - Kamal - Marmayogi
Kamal Hassan has started pre-production work on his new film Marmayogi, which he is directing and producing, on first copy basis for the corporate Reliance Adlabs. Kamal's Marmayogi, is said to be a historical adventure romantic film with an 'A' list of actors. He has already contacted Bollywood actress Kajol, to play the heroine in this film, whic... more...
 10:59 | 24/Jun/2008
It's very easy to keep a woman happy.......
  1) How to Keep a Woman Happy:It's not difficult… Just a few things…!!!All you have to do is to be:1. A friend2. A companion3. A lover4. A brother5. A father6. A master7. A chef8. An electrician9. A carpenter10. A plumber11. A mechanic12. A decorator13. A stylist14. A sexologist15. A gynecologist16. A psychologist17. A pest exterminator18. A psych... more...
 12:19 | 23/Jun/2008
Please do read atleast once.........
Something All Software Professionals should know Six software professionals under the age of 33 have died and 2 top executives from renowned software companies have become paralysed because of stress-related heart ailments in the last six months in Chennai, says a study by Mitran Foundation, a Bangalore-based voluntary association of practising doc... more...
 19:32 | 11/Jun/2008
Girls are intelligent
One day, a girl, 18yrs old, heard from her mother that if she willdo a regular prayer for 4 yrs, a divine "Devi" will come to her dreams &give her 3 boons. So she decided to do it. She completed 4 yrssuccessfully, doing prayer regularly.Now it was a day for "Devi" to come. So she slept earlier withthoughts in her mind to ask.And, really a "Devi" ca... more...
 16:35 | 4/Jun/2008
Here's what is happening in India
   Capital suggestion       By Dr Farrukh Saleem       12/9/2007         Here's what is happening in India:        The two Ambani brothers can buy 100 percent of every company listed       on       the Karachi Stock Exchange (KSE) and would still be left with $30       billion to spare. The four richest Indians can buy up all goods and       servic... more...
 15:41 | 2/Jun/2008
All IT professionals - MUST READ
  FYI...... Really it is happening in IT industry .....plz don't mistake me but it is true........ No hurting nothgs,but every one in it sud hv to knw this ....for their future life...   In the wake of two shocking incidents that took place in Bangalore and Hyderabad , couples committing suicide because of extra-marital affairs with their colleagues, I just thought of writing a small article on how to avoid such incidents. This is really a serious matter and if not dealt on at an early stage could lead to such incidents in our personal life too. I have done research on human behavior and psychology and am trying to put-in some text which may (or may not) be helpful to you. Never-the-less I feel it's worth knowing such things and if possible every individual can make a conscious effort to more or less follow the same.               Some people don't take advice but taking good advice may do you no harm. Thos who are not married this is the best article as before starting a new relationship if you are ready for it, will only help you to lead a happy life. Read on..              We spend 40/45/50/60 hours a week with our colleagues. This is the most we spend with any members of our family. So it's obvious they are an integral part of our life. Good, understood. But an important point to remember is colleagues are colleagues and not friends and if you think they are friends then you are highly mistaken. Imagine working together for 9 hours a day together and then returning home and continuing to talk with your colleague on phone. This is what happened with that Infosys guy who could not stand this behavior of his wife and killed her and committed suicide. Which husband would like his wife talking on phone with her colleague and that too male counterpart? Or which wife will like her husband doing the same? Just keep yourself in that situation and see. Anger will creep in within you .              So whatever gossip or topic you want to discuss with your colleagues do it during office hours and once you are out of office forget about your work and your colleagues unless it's official matter . Just check this unnecessary talk... A guy and her colleague walking out of office at 6.30p.m. At 7.30 or 8.00 the guy calls that female, Guy: Hi, how are you? Where have you reached? (Don't you know how she is and where she must be at this time) Lady: I am fine. Reached home. Guy: What are you cooking today? Lady: So and so (Now here the lady knows that the guy has called to flirt with her and the call is unnecessary. It's the duty of the female to  say something to avoid that guy. If she doesn't at this stage then this call will be going for another 30-45 mins and questions like 'When will you be taking bath? What time you will sleep? What will you bring for me for breakfast for tomorrow will creep in?' and imagine the state of the family members of that lady at this point.               They expect the lady to come and talk with them for sometime but here this lady is enjoying a talk with the guy with whom she has been working since morning. No wonder such people will have a horrendous married life .               A simple thing to think about. Say you are not married. You go to office and come back say at 6.00 in the evening. You have so much of time left. Can't you read some books and increase your knowledge rather than spending one-two hours on mobile. Girls can start experimenting with new dishes. Main thing to understand is such gossiping on calls becomes on habit and bad habits die-hard. You will be addicted to talking and this can be bad as time goes on. One you start working you have to come out of college life. In college you could enjoy, flirt, do anything you wanted. But this is real life . Be responsible or else you will be responsible for your terrible life and the life if your husband/wife .               Any person no matter who he/she is would never like his/her wife/husband having such relationship with her/his colleagues . Last year 90% of divorce happened because of Extra-Marital Affairs and in that 80% because of relationships with colleagues . And we would not like this to happen with us. So start from now. Guys see to it that you don't put an habit of calling you female-colleagues after office hours or on weekends or holidays, even if they provoke you or give missed calls . Let them spend time with their family members or other friends. You also do the same. Good girls don't give missed calls. And girls who give I need not say what kind of girls they are. Stay away from them. You can talk as much as you want in office. And gals, if any guy calls you then it's not bad to say 'No, Let's talk in office' or 'I am busy, talk with you tomorrow' to that guy. Do it twice and they will automatically stop calling. Guys have this habit of flirting and you allowing them to flirt will only help them do more. Relationships can always be maintained in right manner . Never succumb to emotional pressure like 'You don't want to talk with me or what' or 'You can call him but you can't call me' or 'You talk for so and so time with her but with me only this much'. Some people fall for this  because they don't want to lose a friend. Again I say colleague is not a friend . They are just here to work and keep on moving in their life. They go to other company, go for growth and so on. They will not wait for you in the same office to be with you forever. So don't be emotionally attached with your colleagues . They are competitors and always on their toes to show you down in front of seniors and managers. You may not realize now but this is a fact, be ready for it . Imagine a girl getting married and someone says to her to be husband, that guy over there is the one who regularly calls your wife or your wife gives missed calls or calls that guy. Always this thing will remain on the back of his mind. Similarly someone tells the bride that your groom always keeps calling that girl or vice-versa.... Imagine yourself at that place. Situations arise because we allow them to. No one can lead ideal life but we can always make an sincere effort to lead one .               Another note to be taken about: (strictly male to female and female to male contexts)                              If your colleague calls you. Just check out whether if he calls others also. If he doesn't then find out why? No guy will call other girl if he is not interested in that girl . In a group there can be five females but it's not necessary that a guy calls all five. He will only call the one on whom he is interested. Similarly, a girl will not give missed call to everyone. If she gives then she must be really lonely. Stay away from them or you will be caught in their loving talk. Guys normally fall for girls because of their beauty or their talk. So if a guy colleague comes to you and proposes you then it's not his mistake completely, it's more of yours because you were the one who used to give him that space .               Also you become a topic of gossip among your fellow colleagues if they come to know that one of their colleague is calling you and not calling others. And there is nothing more dangerous than office gossip . It can cost you your job and just remember how easily you got this job .               So please keep your office and it's people at office and lead a normal happy life. For your good and for the good of your spouse. Send it to your colleagues, friends, relatives, parents and everyone and avoid incidents like the one mentioned at the beginning of this article. If you feel anyone is doing anything mentioned above then just go and tell him/her. You will be helping someone in their life .     more...
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 Neha | 16:34 | 2/Feb/2008
Friends: (132)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: listen music,read...
valentine
Love is the greatest feeling,Love is like a play,Love is what i feel for you.Each and everyday,Love is like a smile.Love is like a song.Love is a great emotion.That keeps us going strong,I love you with all my heart,My body and my soul,I love the way i keep loving,Like a love i can't control,So remember when your eyes meet mine,I love you with all ...  more...
 Alex Gomes | 00:36 | 29/Aug/2008
Friends: (583)  | City: Ahmedabad  | Interests: Sports,Philosophy...
She forgets what she is worth...
When God created woman he was working late on the 6th dayAn angel came by and said: “Why spend so much time on that one?”And the Lord answered:“Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?”“She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 movingparts which all  must be replaceable and she must function on allki...  more...
 nima pandey | 11:47 | 25/Aug/2008
Friends: (343)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: reading comics, d...
ज़िन्दè...
 क्या – क्या नहीं करवातì 8; है यह ज़िन्दè 7;ी,जब खेलने लगती है साथ आदम...  more...
 Nivia Dogra | 11:30 | 2/Sep/2008
Friends: (207)  | City: Dehradun  | Interests: music,cooking, re...
Kindness and courtesy can make an average person SUPERIOR; indifference and lack of concern can make a superior person AVERAGE .  more...
 Ocimum Sanc | 15:42 | 30/Aug/2008
Friends: (111)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Music, Travel, Ph...
Silence
Silence It’s been a fairly long time since I last heard that word. The last I was asked to do it was in school and the last I heard it was when I was watching ‘Jungle Book’ (how I love watching it) when Col. Hathi hollers “Silence in the Ranks!” We keep hearing don’t we? Voices, Noises, Cars, Motors, Bikes, Shrieks, Radios, Videos and everything el...  more...
 sirajdeen | 06:14 | 4/Aug/2008
Friends: (2)  | City: Madurai  | Interests: singing, photogra...
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 Veena Hari | 14:04 | 2/Sep/2008
Friends: (271)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: writing
DISINTEGRATION
Fear is tugging at my heart. Silences end the talks that never start..  Tears giving away the lies and pretences. Standing atop the peak of happiness of all senses.  Look ahead the road goes spiraling down. Smiles die slowly ...then appears the unwanted frown.  Treacherously the beauty of US elopes. We run, we pant…fuelled by our hopes.  The harder...  more...
 RAJEEV GARG | 12:35 | 28/Aug/2008
Friends: (919)  | City: HARYANA  | Interests: LISTENING MUSIC,O...
PRIZE/SURPRIZE
                      SURPRISE/PRIZE                  I WAS AWAY FROM MY ILAND FRIENDS FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS DUE TO SOME UNAVOIDABLE CIRCUMSTANCES.                    IN THE LAST ONE MONTH I HAVE RECEIVED A LOT OF MAILS/POSTS(YOU MUST HAVE ALSO RECEIVED) IN WHICH IT WAS MENTIONED TO FORWARD THAT PARTICULAR MAIL TO EITHER 13 OR TO SUCH A NUMBER OF F...  more...
 Stacy Sin | 14:33 | 30/Aug/2008
Friends: (106)  | Interests: Googling and Day-...
Doing what's right without fear or favou...
I was born and bred in Singapore. This is my home, to which I am tied by family and friends. Yet many Singaporeans find me eccentric, though most are too polite to verbalise it. I only realised how eccentric I am when one friend pointed out to me why I could not use my own yardstick to judge others. I dislike intensely the elitist attitude of some ...  more...
 krishna agarwal | 07:34 | 5/Jul/2008
Friends: (487)  | City: Bhubaneshwar  | Interests: travelling,making...
General Knowledge
Can You Give You Woman A Deeper Orgasm?Author: Jerry LeungAs a man, you will probably want to learn more ways to give your lady deeper orgasms. Yet, the fact is that no many people can really do that. In fact, there are some methods you can use in order to give your lady a deeper orgasm. Here are some tips for you to do so.At this point, some of th...  more...
 Make Money | 22:39 | 25/Aug/2008
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Work at Home Data Entry
Online data entry is an excellent career to consider if you want to work at home. The equipment needed for this type of job is very minimal. You only need a computer with an Internet connection, a table and a comfortable chair. Data entry duties include the inputting of correspondence, reports, and spreadsheets into a home computer and then transmi...  more...
 dishita | 16:39 | 9/Aug/2008
Friends: (16)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: Biking,Music and ...
Love dont cost a thing
GOODBYE…He said as he left. I wished he would stay back, I wished I could tell him how much I would miss him, I wished I should tell me to not forget me and love me back….but I only wished I never tried to even tell him all this. He with his practicalities, with his friends and everything which was important to him except me. He was the epitome of ...  more...
 Manu Nair | 07:49 | 31/Aug/2008
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High Time For Our Country to Invest in a...
Can we ever ban plastics in use today? Plastics are used for making electrical switches, kettles, lawnmower parts toys, drink bottles, carrier bags, paints & adhesives, are also used in pillows and in mattresses. It is used for cars and computers too. Are these only the uses of plastics? No milk in India is supplied in plastic covers and we also us...  more...
 The Princess | 23:11 | 5/Jun/2008
Friends: (227)  | City: Mother Earth  | Interests: When we just obse...
HUNG BY THE TONGUE
Some people just have a knack for saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. They are being, "Hung By the Tongue!"A state trooper pulled a man over for speeding on a deserted road. Since the road was clear and the weather fine, the trooper had indicated that he may not give the man a ticket, and let them off with a warning. He even complemented both...  more...
 Tumble Weed | 10:41 | 1/Sep/2008
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Weight Loss Program
A guy calls a company and orders their 5-day, 10 lb. weight loss program.The next day, there"s a knock on the door and there standing before him a voluptuous, athletic, 19 year old babe dressed in nothing but a pair of Nike running shoes and a sign round her neck. She introduces herself as a representative of the weight loss company.The sign reads:...  more...
 justaju | 18:01 | 1/Sep/2008
Friends: (138)  | City: Hyderabad  | Interests: khud ko samajh le...
Nafrat
Tu janta hai..  nafrat hai mujhe?Sadiyon ki teri janleva chuppi aur phir zara si is muskurahat se..?Jab chup hai to kyon chup hi nahin reh jata?Hamesha ke liye?Kyon khelta hai tu..Mujhse..mere dil se..mere jazbaaton se??Nafrat hai mujhe..tujhse,teri chuppi se aur teri is muskurahat se..Aur nafrat hai mujhe kambakht is dil se..jo aaj bhi machal utht...  more...
 hardhitter h... | 10:29 | 1/Sep/2008
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Everybody Cheats-The Book
Everybody Cheats-The Book..“Oye Ganpat… chal daru la !”.. This should be India’s National Anthem. First time I heard this song instantly I thought about it. These lyrics are so philosophical. So many meanings. So much it says in the very first line. So refreshing. So addictive. Some how this also reminds me it would sound most apt when army marches...  more...
 Lissome Lady | 10:23 | 28/Aug/2008
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EMPTY OPTIMISM.
 My husband has coined a term for a syndrome that affects most Indians, especially the young. It is the opposite of “grapes are sour”. Grapes are sour is a proverb for those who don’t have the grapes and declare it sour as a consolation to themselves for not getting the grapes, or, having no hopes of ever getting them.  “Grapes are sweet” is when t...  more...
 Vish Iyer | 23:41 | 31/Aug/2008
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Why do we Network - To learn or to fill...
Seeing an increasing number of people focused on adding more connections/contacts per week in an online world. Isn’t networking now becoming a chore today where people’s primary goal is making contacts/connections based on what the other person can and could do for you.  Wish to better understand this new trend and debate this notion that the prima...  more...
 sadaf | 14:53 | 12/Jul/2008
Friends: (199)  | City: Jaipur  | Interests: reading,music,pai...
Tell Me Whom You LoveJohn Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn't, the girl with the rose. His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in a Florida library. Taking a ...  more...
 nataszah cer... | 20:47 | 6/Aug/2008
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Morning Wish
I wish you wake up this morning Realizing what a wonderful person you are And the world is blessed to have you as a part of it... Have a sparkling day ahead friend!!!!!! Love you.....  more...
 Kamalesh Sharma | 08:48 | 15/Jun/2008
Friends: (270)  | City: Jaipur  | Interests: Music, photograph...
News channels
Friends have you seen/watch indian news channels nowadays? Their breaking news are nothing except having so many breaks. 4th umpire, IPL,glamour, crime events, bollywood gossips and commercial breaks are main news which are broadcasted on priorities. current national or international issues, economic policies of the Govt, public issues, issues rega...  more...
 pooja verma | 12:31 | 5/Aug/2008
Friends: (36)  | City: sirohi  | Interests: philosophy,socity...
Expect we must
Expect nothing,Expect nothingSo many times wetell ourselves as well as others these words but do we realize that we nevercan become a person who expects nothing from anyone.We expect love, weexpect respect, we expect attention and lot more things…. The list is endless.We expect allpossible things from all the surrounding.When we feel hot weexpect r...  more...
 tejbal singh | 16:45 | 12/Jun/2008
Friends: (10)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: reading,music,
Mental Feng Shui This is without a doubt one of the nicest good luck forwards I have received. Hope it works for you -- and me! Lotus Touts: You have 6 minutesThere's some mighty fine advice in these words , even if you're not superstitious. This Lotus Touts has been sent to you for good luck from the Anthony Robbins organization. It has been sent ...  more...
 Kumar Ahuja | 18:22 | 28/Aug/2008
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A Gift is a Gift
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 ronita maitra | 13:46 | 22/Aug/2008
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blogs
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 Rishabh Kohli | 10:34 | 25/Jul/2008
Friends: (61)  | City: NOIDA  | Interests: Singing,music,net...
Real and Virtual
hello all.....Long time since blogging....isn't it? ya I know..For such a long time I'd been orkutting quite a lot, and so didn't blog.. These sources of entertainment like Orkut,Facebook and other social networking sites are not only a good medium to communicate with ur old friends, bt also to increase ur social network and make new friends.. You ...  more...
 sareena nafe... | 22:48 | 1/Sep/2008
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Muthukad....the magician
Magician Gopinath Muthukad created history by correctly "predicting " the main headlines of six noewspapers.The newspapers.....The hindu,Indian Express,Deshabimani,Madyamam,Manorama and Mathrabhumi.The head lines were written on a sheet of paper attested by eight dignitaries and then kept in the locker at the Co-operative bank on Friday,Aug-22.The ...  more...
 beena john | 23:36 | 31/Aug/2008
Friends: (510)  | City: Nagpur  | Interests: MOVIES, MUSIC, SH...
ORISSA BURNING...
Its more than a week since communal violence erupted in Kandhamal district and other places of Orissa over the killing of VHP leader Swami Lakshmanananda.   Contrary government’s claim, roads in Kandhamal remained blocked even on Saturday and reporters attempting to reach the riot-affected hamlets had to return half-way. Thousands of Christian men ...  more...
 Ravi Vaghela | 16:57 | 10/Jun/2008
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LOVE
how could you say you love mebut you go and leave mehow could you say you careif your not going to stayI wish it always rainso you could not seethe hurt, pain and tears you gave to mehow could you say you love mewhen you love someone elsehow could you sayI can find somebody elsewhen all I want is youand all I need is youhow could you say ill be fin...  more...
 Kalpana Bharti | 16:30 | 14/Aug/2008
Friends: (23)  | City: Bangalore  | Interests: Books,Music,Trave...
Purpose III
How Do You Find Your Purpose? "Learn what you are, and be such." Pindar It’s Already Within You! "Finding" your purpose is a misleading concept because it’s not something you have to go out and "get," but rather something you need to turn within and claim. You’ve already got it – even if you haven’t consciously realized or chosen it yet. Of course,...  more...
 Krishnan Ven... | 08:39 | 29/May/2008
Friends: (45)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: Social service, P...
HOW RELIABLE IS CHINA?
CAN CHINA BE EVER TRUSTED ? China swallowed Tibet in the late fifties. None in the world had the guts to question it. It declared war on India in 1962 just because it gave asylum to the Dalai Lama and India could not emerge victorious in the war as China was superior in military strength.All this happened in spite of Nehru 's promotion of "Indo-Chi...  more...
 neekie | 15:08 | 28/Aug/2008
Friends: (235)  | City: Mumbai  | Interests: poetry,photograph...
tame kar jo phota saathe arjee
હરિ ! તમે તો સાવ જ અંગત સાંભળď 6;ો આ મરજીઘĐ 3;ા મૂરતિđ 5;ા લખી મોકલે વિ...  more...
 anil verma | 18:33 | 21/Aug/2008
Friends: (831)  | City: Delhi  | Interests: wrighting, readin...
ADWANI KI AMARNATH YATRA KI TAYAARI
आडवाणì 8; जी की अमरनाê 1; यात्रì 6; की घोसणा RATH YATRA DECLAIRED BY ADWAANIजब लिया था राम नाम क...  more...
 venmonybimal... | 14:34 | 30/Aug/2008
Friends: (216)  | City: Indonesia  | Interests: writing,painting,...
Make a Life for Me